First Date with my Husband!

Yesterday was my husband’s birthday, and Naomi Rose generously offered to be with Shalomy so we could go out for dinner together.  Wow… I can’t remember the last time we were on a date on our own – certainly not since he was born, but probably for quite a bit before that as well!  (We’ve only been out with him, sleeping or otherwise.)  We used to be quite decent at carving out time to invest in our marriage, but actually leaving Shalomy behind and GOING somewhere just the two of us?!  Needless to say, I was super excited and also nervous.

Eeeee so excited to go on our 'first' date since becoming parents!

Eeeee so excited to go on our ‘first’ date since becoming parents!

The date was wonderful, in case you were wondering, and I got to dress up!  I have had to dress up for various occasions since giving birth – for simchas, photographs, Wrapunzel shows, concerts, etc. – but getting dressed solely to look beautiful for my husband?  It felt like a new world to me.  Picking clothing that I know he loves on me, and putting on makeup that he likes (aka very little) just felt fresh.  Basically what I’m trying to say to all of you that may have let this part of your life slide to the back burner: PLEASE DO IT.  It will revitalize you in all areas because if your shalom bayit (harmony in the home) is shining and growing, so will the rest of your life :)

It was also super important for me to redefine myself – as more than a mother,  hostess,  Wrapunzeler, family member, musician and all the other ‘hats’ that I wear.  These things are super important, but I needed to remember that the greatest gift I’ve ever been given is being my husband’s soulmate.  I now feel more whole and am so grateful we were able to do this.  (Thank you Naomi Rose!)

Anyway, here is what I wore!

May you all be blessed with love and renewal.  Kol tuv!
Love, Andrea

Naomi Rose: Easy 2-Scarf Regal Wrap!

Hi everybody!

At Wrapunzel we try very hard to make detailed tutorials for beginners, as well as complicated, fancy videos for more advanced wrappers. But in my daily wraps I often find myself occupying a middle space – I usually do something a bit more involved than a Regal Wrap or the Easiest Long Scarf Wrap, but definitely not anything very time-consuming or formal. So for anyone else that would like to go beyond one scarf but not spend too much time in front of the mirror, here’s one of my most favorite daily styles – the 2-Scarf Regal Wrap!

Photo on 8-25-15 at 4.53 PM #2

And here’s how to do it:

Do you also find yourself gravitating toward middle-difficulty wraps? Do you have a favorite? Share it with us!!


Naomi Rose

An Ode to the Tichel Tantrum

Wrapunzel Tichel Tantrum


It’s 9am and you have less than five minutes to get out the door before you’ll be late for work. You’ve already tried four different wraps. One made you look tired, the other clashed with your shirt, the third scarf was perfect but every time you wrapped it, it slipped, and the fourth stayed put but looked too casual for that meeting you have coming up today. Your arms and wrists are cramping from holding them up above your head so long. You feel like screaming and throwing every scarf you own out the window.  Your husband comes in and asks innocently if you’re ready and you contemplate throwing the scarves at him instead of out the window.

If this has been you… you’re not alone. We’ve ALL been there. Regardless of whether we’re beginners or experienced wrappers with decades of practice, we can’t avoid the occasional TICHEL TANTRUM.

This gorgeous and oh-so-appropriate term was coined by Heather, one of the original members of our Wrapunzel Fangroup, and it enjoys frequent use to this day. One memorable day, a Fangroup member wondered whether women who cover their hair with something other than a tichel suffer the same kind of tribulations. What would we call it if a Muslim woman struggled with her hijab, or an Israeli with her mitpachat*?

What followed was an amazing outpouring of hilarious terminology, all generated by the sparkling minds of Wrapunzelers on the Fangroup. We want everyone to be able to enjoy them, so without further ado…

If it’s not QUITE a tichel tantrum you’re having, it might be:

-a hijab hissyfit
-a scarf snit
-pashmina problems
-veil vapors
-turban turbulence
-covering conundrums
-a scarf snafu
-a hijab hoopla
-a sinar scene**
-a pashmina predicament
-turban turmoil
-a scarf scene

This terrible experience might inspire some emotions and reactions, possibly including:

-feeling scarf scared
-or scarf scarred!
-wrap rage
-a wrap rant

If it’s REALLY bad, it might result in:

-turbo turban torture!
-scarf barf

Wrapunzel Tichel Tantrum

Tichel Tantrum Torture!

You might need:

-a bad mood snood
-some turban bourbon

BUT! Don’t worry! You will survive this, and overcome! And in time, you will come to be:

-a wrap wrangler
-a mitpachat maestro
-a hijab heroine
-a wrap whisperer
-a tichel tamer!

And you will experience:

-mitpachat nachat.***
-a tichel triumph!!

We’re loving it! Hopefully this list will convince you that no-one escapes this universal hair-covering experience… we’re tempted to tape it up in the bathroom for some perspective. Can you relate? Share your experiences (or your favorite words for tichel disasters) in the comments! We’d love to hear from you!

Love, Naomi Rose
PS – Now will someone PLEASE show me how to tie this turban?!

*mitpachat is the Hebrew word for head-covering, used mostly in Israel
**a sinar is an apron-shaped Israeli scarf, designed for head-wrapping
***Nachat, or its Ashkenaz variation, nachas, is a word denoting pride/gratification coming from an achievement.

My Favourites :)

It’s funny, I sometimes won’t wear my favourite outfits because I’m always looking to try new things, but over the past few weeks I’ve needed some comfort, so I put on colors that I knew would make me smile in cuts of clothing that I knew were flattering… loved this!

I’ve been avoiding necklaces during the day because of grabby little baby hands, but you can use your imagination and put a nice dark gold necklace on me in both these outfits!  ;)

Teal and light brown shimmeries… the best!

And my new favourite clip with an awesome skirt!  It was seriously raining outside but I was dancing!

It’s a good reminder to go back to your favourites, right?  Have you ever had an experience like this?  We’d love to hear about it!

Samantha: Our Historical Clothing Expert Lady Wrap Star!

I am literally bouncing with excitement that I get to introduce Samantha to you!  She’s a professional seamstress, and historical clothing expert!  Her love of hair covering stems from her truly understanding its roots and how it connects us to the women that came before us.  Read on, read on!!


Hi Samantha, can you tell us a little about yourself?  Your background, where you live, favourite things, how you spend your time, hobbies, etc.?

I was born and raised in Southern California, but have spent the last four years in Michigan and then Virginia (hopefully permanently!). My husband is Michael and we recently celebrated our second wedding anniversary. For my entire life I have loved all sorts of creative activities, from writing and drawing to singing and dancing. Now most of my creative energy is focused on sewing, although I still create sketches for most of the projects I make. My husband and I met through our mutual love of historical clothing and living history reenactments, so that is often how we can be found spending our weekends and vacations (when we’re not sewing…).


What led you to start wrapping your hair?  How did you find Wrapunzel?

I feel I have always been drawn to head coverings, whether they were hats, caps, bonnets, or scarves. When I covered my head, I felt peaceful and safe. Something about it just felt “right”! Some of my early wrapping attempts as a teen were met with gentle jokes from my family, who probably chalked it up to my artistic nature. My dear friend Maggie helped me embrace my interest in wrapping my hair a couple years ago, and bought me my first Wrapunzel kit! I had seen some Wrapunzel images around the web, but Maggie was my true introduction and inspiration. Watching her cover her hair every day gave me the courage to begin wrapping more often with confidence. This past year I have also been struggling with a physical injury that has severely limited how much I can sew (which is a bit difficult when you believe that sewing is your calling). I began wrapping much more often because of this. Wrapping has provided me with an alternative outlet for expressing my creativity and myself. I’ve been able to divert some of my creative energy from sewing to coming up with new wraps and outfits. It’s been very therapeutic. 

Can you tell us about your style and your greatest fashion inspirations?

The best way to describe my style is “eclectic”! I am inspired by so many things for my everyday wardrobe, like vintage fashions. I really like my outfits to look cohesive and thoughtful, which is something I see a lot in vintage fashion. That doesn’t mean match-matchy, just complimentary. I also think about whether or not a particular garment or outfit is flattering to my body type and/or coloring. But perhaps most importantly, I wear what brings me joy! And that extends to covering my hair. I believe I have many different facets as a person, and my clothing reflects those different facets. So I might wear completely vintage clothing one day and very modern clothing the next day. It might be preppy, boho, or punk, whatever fits my mood. 

What is your FAVOURITE thing about covering?

I honestly think my favorite thing about covering has been the connections I have made with other women that I wouldn’t have otherwise made. It has deepened existing friendships and acted as the catalyst for new ones. Women at work have told me how much they like my different wraps and brought in their own scarves so that I could show them some techniques. I might not have gotten to known them if it weren’t for covering! The Wrapunzel community is one of the most beautiful groups of women I have ever encountered. I always feel uplifted when I see women of all different faiths and walks of life being brought together through a mutual love of covering their hair. 

Has covering changed how you feel about yourself and the world around you?  If so, how?

Covering has made me much more self-conscious–and I don’t mean in a bad way! I am much more aware of how I conduct myself in public–partly because I just feel different when I cover and partly because I know that people are more likely to notice me when I cover. I want to be the best version of myself that I can be when interacting with other people, and covering helps me do that. Having my hair covered reminds me that I wear a crown on my head as a daughter of the King! I have also noticed that covering really makes me feel safe. My husband recently went abroad for two weeks and we had very little contact. I really embraced covering my hair during that period, and it helped me feel safe even though we were apart.


I know you are a historian with a speciality in historical clothing.  Please tell us about this and how does hair covering relate to what you do?  What can we learn, as women that cover today, from the women that covered before us?

My husband and I both work for museums and specifically create and wear historical clothing. Most of the pictures I post in the Wrapunzel fan group are taken in my museum’s costume shop, where I work. Clothing of the past is beautiful and fascinating for many people, but I also believe that clothing can tell us so much about a culture at a certain point in time, as well as tell us something about ourselves today. For most of the time periods we work in, women have some sort of covering on their heads, whether it’s a cap, bonnet, hat, or turban. While the ancient roots are in modesty, it is mostly for fashion! There’s also a practical reason that women covered their hair, especially with caps, because it helps keep the hair clean from dirt and the ash and smoke of working and living with fires. One of the most common questions we get wearing historical clothing is “Are you hot in that???”. I was so excited when I watched Andrea’s video addressing his very same issue, because her answers were exactly the same as the ones we tell visitors who ask us that. People of the past weren’t stupid. In many ways, they were smarter than us about things we have forgotten because of technology. Wearing all natural fibers, keeping your skin covered from the sun, wearing light colors—the people of the past were experts at dressing for the weather. 

Women today often don’t wear hats or anything on their heads unless it’s for a specific activity. Whenever I feel nervous or odd for having my head covered, I remember that women across cultures have been covering their heads for thousands of years, and it’s really only within the last 50 years that it has fallen out of fashion for Western women. Women have had their heads covered for much longer than they haven’t!

The “Girl with a Pearl Earring” has been very popular with Wrapunzel ladies, for good reason! But the late 18th-early 19th centuries (think Jane Austen) saw a huge craze for turbans and other wraps. I suggest checking out paintings and fashion plates from 1790-1830 on Pinterest for more historical wrapping inspiration!


Do you have any hopes/dreams/wild predictions about where this trend is going to take us in the future?

I am really hopeful that head scarves will become even more widely worn by women. I already see wide, twisted headbands being popular, and turbans and scarves are widely worn in the vintage community. Scarves in general are so “in” right now, and I think women want more ways to wear them than just around their necks. I definitely think it’s a trend that is growing, which is very exciting!

Please tell us about how you choose your outfits in the morning!

There are a few ways I come up with outfits. I either plan them out completely the night before or I frantically run around in the morning trying things on! Both ways have been successful, although I think the outfits I plan beforehand are a bit better. I get really excited when I buy a new scarf, piece of jewelry, skirt, etc., and often build an outfit around that new piece.

And finally, what are you grateful for right now?

I have so much to be grateful for right now, from a job I enjoy to a loving family to a roof over our heads. But at this very moment I think I am most grateful for my husband, who always supports me and never gives up on me.